I CHING HEXAGRAM
Hexagram 54: The Marrying Maiden
Kuei Mei · 歸妹
Entering a relation from a fragile position. No demands: here only tact, discretion and the long view sustain affection.
- unequal relations
- tact
- position
- end and beginning
- Upper trigram
- Thunder 震 · Movement
- Lower trigram
- Lake 兌 · Joy
The Judgment
THE MARRYING MAIDEN. Undertakings bring misfortune. Nothing that would further.
The Image
Above the lake, thunder. Thus the superior man understands the transitory in the light of the eternity of the end.
Meaning
The hexagram 'The Marrying Maiden' carries the energy of Thunder (Movement) acting upon Lake (Joy). This moment asks for balance between initiating outwardly and communicating inwardly.
In love
In relationships, the interplay suggests sudden passion combined with pleasure and exchange. Check that communication is clear.
In work and business
At work, the energy favors new ventures grounded in sales and partnerships. Consolidate your base.
Symbolism
The image of Thunder above Lake suggests a natural dynamic of movement over joy.
The six lines
Lines are counted from the bottom (1) to the top (6). A line is read only when it changes in your cast.
Nine in the 1st place
First position: the force is still hidden and unripe. The line is seated in the lower trigram, Lake (Joy) — it acts in the inner world of the figure.
The beginning of movement. The energy is real, but it is too soon to show yourself or act drastically. It stands in its own place: the nature of the line matches the position, and that favors what it asks for. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
The beginning of movement. The energy is real, but it is too soon to show yourself or act drastically. It stands in its own place: the nature of the line matches the position, and that favors what it asks for. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
Nine in the 2nd place
Second position: centered strength, recognized from afar. The line is seated in the lower trigram, Lake (Joy) — it acts in the inner world of the figure.
The center of the lower trigram. Competence begins to be noticed. Seek mentors and alliances. It stands out of place, yet holds the center of the trigram — centrality offsets the mismatch, so long as measure is kept. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
The center of the lower trigram. Competence begins to be noticed. Seek mentors and alliances. It stands out of place, yet holds the center of the trigram — centrality offsets the mismatch, so long as measure is kept. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
Six in the 3rd place
Third position: weakness at a point that demands strength. The line is seated in the lower trigram, Lake (Joy) — it acts in the inner world of the figure.
A vulnerable position at a moment of crossing. Discretion and prudence protect. It stands out of place: the nature of the line does not match the position, so it demands more awareness than talent. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
A vulnerable position at a moment of crossing. Discretion and prudence protect. It stands out of place: the nature of the line does not match the position, so it demands more awareness than talent. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
Nine in the 4th place
Fourth position: the minister at the ruler’s side. The line is seated in the upper trigram, Thunder (Movement) — it acts in the manifest world of the figure.
Close to the goal, but in a delicate position. Advance with tact, not with impetus. It stands out of place: the nature of the line does not match the position, so it demands more awareness than talent. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
Close to the goal, but in a delicate position. Advance with tact, not with impetus. It stands out of place: the nature of the line does not match the position, so it demands more awareness than talent. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
Six in the 5th place
Fifth position: ruling through moderation. The line is seated in the upper trigram, Thunder (Movement) — it acts in the manifest world of the figure.
Authority exercised with gentleness. Success comes from measure, not from imposition. It stands out of place, yet holds the center of the trigram — centrality offsets the mismatch, so long as measure is kept. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
Authority exercised with gentleness. Success comes from measure, not from imposition. It stands out of place, yet holds the center of the trigram — centrality offsets the mismatch, so long as measure is kept. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
Six in the 6th place
Sixth position: the ending that asks for release. The line is seated in the upper trigram, Thunder (Movement) — it acts in the manifest world of the figure.
Outside the center of events. Release what has ended instead of fighting for it. It stands in its own place: the nature of the line matches the position, and that favors what it asks for. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
Outside the center of events. Release what has ended instead of fighting for it. It stands in its own place: the nature of the line matches the position, and that favors what it asks for. And all of this inside the figure of The Marrying Maiden — the matter is unequal relations: that is the theme this line is changing.
Frequently asked questions
What does hexagram 54 mean?
The Marrying Maiden (Kuei Mei): The hexagram 'The Marrying Maiden' carries the energy of Thunder (Movement) acting upon Lake (Joy). This moment asks for balance between initiating outwardly and communicating inwardly.
What does hexagram 54 say about love?
In relationships, the interplay suggests sudden passion combined with pleasure and exchange. Check that communication is clear.
What does hexagram 54 say about work?
At work, the energy favors new ventures grounded in sales and partnerships. Consolidate your base.